Kimberly

Stop:You Decide Not Him!



Posted: Friday, February 29, 2008

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http://kimberlyinChance.blogspot.com

Ladies, don't over do it on your picture!  I know that sounds contradictory to the title, but let me explain. One of the first mistakes a woman makes is sending out that gorgeous photo. You know the one I am talking about. The perfect hair, flawless skin and makeup. That is an all time no no! You want the real magic to begin face to face, when he first lays his eyes on you. Send a photo that is flattering, but not up to your fullest potential.

Present yourself well. A man feels attracted to a well dressed, confident woman.

Don't be late. Contrary to what some women believe, being late on a first date gives the  impression that you could care less about this man and his feelings.

Ditch the cell phone. Not literally, but turn it off and leave it at the bottom of your purse. This date was created for the purpose of a man and woman to get to know one another. Having a cell phone sitting in the middle of a romantic dinner gives the impression you would rather be talking to anybody else, but him.

Don't brag. Most woman don't realize when they are doing this. Talk about yourself of course, but don't drone on with the trivial extras. Give him a chance to tell you your "Attributes."

Don't complain. No one wants to hear about aches and pains, hurts from the past or that the service is poor. Enjoy the moment  with this new special someone. Keep the "Complaints," next to the cell phone at the bottom of your purse.

Don't be rude. Pulling up bra straps, belching and showing dissatisfaction with the wait staff is ugly. This tip appears to be obvious, but you would be surprised how many young women invoke in this behavior.

Refrain from dirty, off color conversations. Leave the poor taste talk at home, especially if you are  enjoying a few cocktails!

Ladies this last tip is the most important tip of all. No matter what kind of signals are being sent throughout the night, "REMAIN A LADY"!  You want him returning home, feeling the magic and craving for more!

Kimberly enjoys studying numerology, astrology, love compatibility charts and experimenting with herbal remedies. She is an advocate for more funding from the NCI for pancreatic cancer research and she has operated her own canine stylist business for the past 12 years. Her interests also include studying little known "plant foods" that induce natural weight loss and also studying a little known herb that naturally curbs the cravings for alcohol .   

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